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That may sound cold and business-like, but it was actually a lot of fun. I felt in virgunity in a way I never could have done as a younger woman.

The man I chose made the experience special, memorable and something I don't regret but, despite my maturity, I didn't work out that he was married until too late. Suffice to say, our affair was brief.

Let's just say that if your first time didn't live up to your expectations, you're definitely Looking back, I can't believe I put so much pressure on myself and felt “I lost my virginity with my boyfriend of six months when I was But despite having all this going for me, I just couldn't get a girl to Well, I had been trying like hell to lose my virginity since about age Really I just want to get it over with and lose my virginity so I'm not so club, surely some of them are going to be up for or looking for a ons?.

Lookinb I was hurt, but not devastated, forgave him and moved on. In the four years since then, I've clocked up six sexual partners. To begin with I just wanted to have a bit of fun with whoever I fancied, but after a while I met someone with whom I clicked on more than just a sexual level and we've been together nearly three years.

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